A Shift in Focus When I speak to parent groups about the remarkable value of shifting from a narrow focus on doing well to a broad focus on leading well and being well, one of the common questions I hear is "If we're not talking about grades and test scores and goals scored, what will we talk about?" The questions posed in this chart can prove to be invaluable in talking with your kids/ students. Now, more than ever. For parents, the discussion prompted by these questions ca